What Other People Think Of You Has Nothing To Do With Who You Really Are

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What Other People Think Of You Has Nothing To Do With Who You Really Are
What Other People Think Of You Has Nothing To Do With Who You Really Are

You do it all the time. You carefully choose what you wear at parties and other social events because you want to make sure you look modern and attractive in the eyes of the other people present there.

What Other People Think Of You Has Nothing To Do With Who You Really Are
What Other People Think Of You Has Nothing To Do With Who You Really Are

You hesitate to be creative or speak up at work because you worry that your coworkers will think you are boring or stupid.

After 50 selfies made, you post only the best one on social media so as to get hundreds of likes in order to prove to others and yourself, too, that you’re likable and pretty.

You constantly worry about what other people think of you.

Stop. Stop doing that.

Because other people’s opinion of you should be none of your concern. Since what someone thinks or says about you has nothing to do with who you are. It actually says more about them, their expectations, their past, their judgments, their likes, and their dislikes.

The truth is that some people will never like you, regardless of what you do or how hard you try. But, instead of worrying about what they think of you, don’t give a damn about them. Live your life the best way you can and focus solely on bettering yourself.

Here are 5 mindset shifts that can help you stop worrying about what others think of you:

1. Know that you’re the only one who is responsible for your own feelings.

When you base your feelings on other people’s opinions of you, you’re allowing them to have control over your life. You’re allowing them to define your worth and shape your happiness.

If someone criticizes you or disrespects you, you feel bad. You might think, “he made me feel this way by criticizing me or disrespecting me.” But the truth is that he doesn’t have control over the way you feel.

He disrespected you and you immediately assigned meaning to that behavior. For example, that meant to you that you aren’t smart enough or likable enough, or that you aren’t worthy of his time. So, we can conclude that it was YOU who hurt your own feelings, not him.

2. Always know your values.

By knowing your values and living your life in accordance with them, you’ll never be led astray. For example, inner peace is one of the things I value most in life and I always hold onto it when I need to say no to someone that’s asking for my time without worrying about whether they’ll judge me or think I’m selfish.

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