Don’t let anyone fool you that love is hard. Love is not supposed to make you wonder someone’s actions. It is not supposed to send you to bed with tears in your eyes. Love is not supposed to ruin your life. Love is not supposed to make you suffer.
Love is supposed to liberate you.
So, why would you settle for less than the real thing?
Why would you condemn yourself to a life of misery?
Why would agree to spend your life next to someone who keeps convincing you that love is indeed hard?
This life is too short for giving too many chances and not taking care of ourselves.
Stay alone until you find yourself… And ultimately find someone who is willing to be there for you in ways that no one ever was. Someone who is strong enough to catch you when you fall. Someone who is mature enough to commit to a relationship with you. Someone who is open enough to share his life with you.
Stay alone until you find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated without expecting a pat on his back for being a good boyfriend. Someone who understands that playing hard to get is not the way to make you fall in love with them. Someone who is not up for playing games, but for building a real relationship with you.
Stay alone until you find someone who puts effort into everyday conversations with you. Someone who wants to get to know you. Personally, and intimately. Someone who loves to hear you talk. Someone who enjoys connecting with you through words.
Stay alone until you find someone who understands that it takes two to tango and two to build a solid relationship. Someone who does as much for you as you do for him. Someone who fights to protect and preserve what you two have. Someone who goes out of his way to show you that your love means the world to him.
Stay alone until you find someone who puts effort into proving his love to you every single day. Someone who makes you feel appreciated and respected. Someone who texts you in the morning to check on you because they cannot wait until they see you again. Someone who tucks you in and kisses you goodnight. Someone who cooks your favorite meal and serves your dinner in bed. Someone who always thinks of you.
Stay alone until you find someone who never stops pursuing you even after they’ve got you. Someone who puts effort into every aspect of the relationship. Someone who knows how important that spark in the relationship is. Someone who makes sure you always know how genuinely loved you are instead of making you worry whether he actually cares.