etting go of someone who means the world to you is hard and painful, but sometimes it’s the best thing you can do to preserve your happiness.
Letting go of someone who occupies a special place in your heart is difficult, and undoubtedly, takes time.
Because the truth is that you can’t let go of someone overnight. The art of letting go occurs after you’ve been disappointed and hurt several times. It occurs after your trust has been betrayed time and time again. It occurs after your heart has been broken a thousand times. It occurs after you’ve given all your love to someone who didn’t deserve that.
Because those of us who have hearts of gold never lose hope that things will get better. We turn a blind eye to red flags. We make our lives miserable trying to make others happy. We devote our time and energy to people who don’t even deserve a second of our attention. We forgive and give second chances to people who don’t deserve to be forgiven.
Letting Go Of Someone
But, you see, all of these negative, painful experiences actually get you where you are supposed to be. They shape you into the person you’re meant to be.
One day you simply realize that all the pain you experienced wasn’t for nothing. You realize that the energy you invested in your previous relationships wasn’t for nothing. Because now you are strong and wise because of it.
Now you know what type of people you need to stay away from. Now you know what kind of people deserve a place in your life. Now you know what makes you happy. Now you know who you want to be and where you’re headed in life.
That’s why when your mind tells you to let go of someone, no matter how painful this may be for you, just LISTEN to it. Because what lies ahead of you is way better than what lies behind you.