Every person has a pattern that they follow in their life, whether it’s their romantic life or otherwise. There are five romantic archetypes that can define our choices in partners. To find out your path in love, finding your romantic archetype and love language is important. There might be chances that you relate to all of them, but one of them is likely to speak to you more than others.
Once we know how we give and receive love and affection, it improves our relationship. It gives us knowledge about our inner selves and once we know what we expect in relationships, it makes it easier to communicate the same to our partners as well. It reduces the chances of misunderstandings.
1. The girl-next-door
She is no plain Jane but gets overlooked because her focus is on being a loyal and good friend. She has a young and playful energy about her. She is also a peacemaker who gets along with everyone. Maintaining composure is important for her, and so, others might perceive her as somewhat unfeminine. As a result, her partner might not really see her as a sensual person. Her idea of showing love is to spend quality time together, and she showers undivided attention to her partner.
2. The alpha
She’s the head of the pack and people look up to her. She might not be very feminine, but she certainly has a very strong presence. She has created the perfect blend of two so that her feminine touch is equated with being a leader and power. In love, she wants to be told she is the best at what she does and the most beautiful woman. She looks for words of affirmation from her partner. She wants to know that her actions are noticed and she wants to be in the spotlight. One of her weaknesses is that she doesn’t always know the right time to show vulnerability. It scares her to put her guard down and not be in control.
3. The nurturer
She’s one of the most caring people anybody would ever meet. She makes sure others are taken care of and comfortable. She’s the quintessential nurturing woman, who would care for her partner in a selfless way. Sometimes, she gives of herself more than her limits permit her to. One of her defining characteristics is devotion to others. From cooking to taking out the garbage, she does everything to be of service to others. She values a similar love language from others because she wants others to notice how much she does for them. She could be lacking in self-esteem that can crop up later as passive aggression.
4. The enchantress
She is the woman who becomes an object of desire and aspiration for people. Her beauty like that of Helen of Troy’s sets her apart. She has many admirers and people want to have her in their life without getting to know the real person behind the face. She might go out of touch with her own feelings and needs to be aware of her partners. She loves showing affection by giving and receiving gifts. She is not afraid of her femininity and sensuality. She can charm anyone but she needs to be sure that she stays authentic to her desires and needs.
5. The adventuress
She is a non-conformist and a free bird. It is hard to peg her down and she doesn’t see life as a way to settle down in one place. She wants to experience all of herself, including her sexuality, in her life. Those who fall for her may feel like they are after an elusive dream. She makes her needs and desires known through physical touch. It is also how she expresses best. She shows love by holding hands, cuddling, and sex. She is playful and sensual and has no trouble finding partners, but there has to be someone special out there to make her want to put down roots.
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