Hey! Stop letting people convince you that love is supposed to hurt. Stop thinking that every love requires sacrifices, tears, and pain. Love shouldn’t break you down and make you suffer. Love is supposed to heal you, not rip you apart. It’s supposed to help you open your wings and liberate you, not put you in a cage.
I know what some of you will say… Love is not always easy. It is true, it’s not.
But it is who you choose to go through all of those challenges that matters the most. It is about finding someone who is worth it, not giving yourself away to just about anyone who comes into your life.
There is no point in wasting your life on people who don’t deserve you.
I say stay alone!
Stay alone until you find someone who is willing to do anything to make the relationship work. Someone who is mature enough and knows exactly what he wants out of life. Someone who is ready to commit to you and love you the way you deserve.
Stay alone until you find a person who sees you for who you truly are and falls in love with the real you. Someone who treats you like a queen. A person who knows how blessed and happy he is for having you in his life.
Stay alone until you find a person who not only talks to you but listens to you as well. Someone who cares about how you feel and is always there to offer you his loving embrace and honest advice. Someone who looks into your eyes while you speak and focuses on you only.
Stay alone until you find someone who includes you in every part of his life. Someone who gladly holds your arm in public and slow dances with you on the street without giving a damn how silly you two look. Someone who takes you out to dinners with his friends and family. Someone who proudly calls you “my girlfriend”.
Stay alone until you find someone who puts effort into every little aspect of your relationship. Someone who cares about those little things in life, like texting you in the morning, bringing breakfast in bed, watching your favorite movies, surprising you with your favorite flowers and just telling you how much he loves you over and over again.
Stay alone until you find a person who is not afraid to catch you when you fall. Someone who is not afraid to open his heart and let you inside his world. Someone who would do anything to protect what you two have.
Stay alone until you find someone who puts effort into proving his love to you. Someone who doesn’t make you wonder what his true intentions are, but rather makes sure you realize how loved and cherished you really are. Someone who falls in love with you each and every day all over again. Someone who doesn’t take you for granted, but keeps pursuing you even after he’s got you.