You may have gone through most of your life wondering is soulmates even exist. But the moment you met your partner, you realized that it is possible to feel so connected to someone that you fit with each other so perfectly. They walked into your life at the right place and at the right time, and ever since then, your bond has been unbreakable though the best and worst parts of a relationship. Here’s how you know you have found your soulmate.
1. They can tell what you’re feeling even before you say it
One look at you is enough for them to sense what you’re feeling. They know when you’re excited and they can sense that you’re upset with the slightest dip in your tone. Sometimes, you don’t even have to say it with words but they can guess what’s on your mind because you both are so emotionally in sync. “Feeling emotionally connected is an essential part of a healthy relationship,” said licensed family therapist David Klow, according to Prevention.
2. There is nothing they would want to change about you
Nobody makes you feel so loved the way that your partner does. They are absolutely in love with every inch of you and would never want to change a thing about you. You feel so comfortable around them because they are always reminding you of how perfect you are to them. And not only do they make you forget all your doubts and inhibitions, but they make you feel so much more confident and sure about yourself with your partner beside you.
3. They would never hide anything from you, not even the bitter truths
The one thing you can always count on your partner to do is to be honest with you no matter what. They don’t string you along by telling you the kind of things you love hearing. You are open with each other and your partner is able to give you the tough love that you need to push you on. “If there’s a sense of safety and a holding environment where you feel confident in the other person with any information or experiences you share, they could be it,” licensed clinical psychotherapist, Julia Colangelo, told Bustle.
4. They make everything seem so easy even during the tough times
It doesn’t matter whether you’re happy, sad, grumpy, upset, or cranky. Your partner loves every side of you and patiently listens to you when you need to vent. They are able to provide the emotional support that you need to pick you up when you’re feeling your worst. “You have to be able to love someone at their worst if you’re going to be with them,” said psychologist Barton Goldsmith, PhD, author of The Happy Couple.
5. There is always a place in their world for you and your needs
One of the most special feelings you have in the relationship is that of feeling protected and safe when your partner is around. Your partner never stops paying attention to you and they not only recognize your needs, but they do their best to fulfill them, too. They stretch their world to include you in it and there is no emotion of yours that they dismiss as unimportant. Your feelings and opinions matter to them as much as their own.
6. They would never do anything that they know will hurt you
You know that sometimes people mess up in relationships and can make mistakes. But you can trust your partner to tell you the truth and to never hide anything from you. They may slip up sometimes, but they would never intentionally do anything that they know would hurt you. Your happiness is their happiness and they wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize it. And this helps you get through all the ups and downs of your relationship, hand-in-hand.
7. They remind you of your strengths when you have moments of weakness
Always there for you to lean on, your partner fills you with the encouragement you need to get past anything that’s stopping you. They know that sometimes you overthink and can’t look past your own flaws, but they remind you of just how strong you are. And seeing how much they believe in you is all that you need to face your fears and overcome them, and no matter what happens, you know that your partner will be right there with open arms.
This article is based on facts collated from different sources. The views expressed here are those of the writer.
Disclaimer: This article is based on facts collated from different sources. The views expressed here are those of the writer.